Parks are for everyone, until creeps take them over

When public spaces become sites of lewd acts, open drug use, and anti-social behaviour, they stop feeling public and many are increasingly questioning who their parks are really for.

During a recent visit to Cobourg’s Ecology Garden to conduct interviews for a story about the local fight over parks and playgrounds, a man sleeping in the gazebo decided to pleasure himself in front of me.

He looked up, made kissing noises, put both hands down his pants, and began openly engaging in self-pleasure while staring directly at me.

Mid-interview, while my videographer and I were simply trying to speak with another man who was being perfectly respectful, I had to physically reposition myself, using the interviewee as a shield, just to put an end to the indecent act.

This is the kind of behaviour that won’t appear in any municipal planning document or feel-good policy statement, but it is the reality residents are describing on the ground.

This incident happened in the same park flagged in Cobourg’s draft Parks and Recreation Master Plan, where locals say they now avoid the garden during summer months.

The plan talks about “non-stigmatizing” public health signage and sharps disposal bins. What it doesn’t adequately address is the open drug use, encampments, and anti-social behaviour that have made families, children, and seniors feel unwelcome in spaces built for them.

After Cobourg Mayor Lucas Cleveland pushed back on the draft plan and called for it to align with the law and common sense, several social service organizations issued an open letter defending the inclusion of homelessness, encampments, and harm-reduction measures in the Parks Master Plan.

They argued that “Cobourg’s parks are public spaces—for all members of the public,” that people experiencing homelessness reside in parks because shelters are full.

The letter, signed by leaders from Northumberland United Way, Green Wood Coalition, Northumberland Community Legal Centre, Rebound Child & Youth Services, and Transition House Coalition, frames opposition to encampments as lacking compassion. They defend syringe bins as protecting everyone, including kids, and insist housing is a human right.

But here’s the reality many of these advocates seem keen on ignoring: when a handful of people’s chaotic or criminal behaviour drives out the vast majority who simply want to use the park for recreation, picnics, or play, “parks for everyone” stops sounding noble and starts sounding like a slogan that excuses failure.

One person’s freedom cannot come at the expense of everyone else’s ability to use public spaces safely. Children, families, and seniors aren’t asking for exclusion; they’re asking for parks that remain what they were always meant to be: clean, safe places for community life. Places to be utilized for their intended use.

Mayor Cleveland has since filed a Notice of Motion, set for council consideration on June 24. The motion notes that parks exist “for the recreation, health, and quality of life of all residents, not as sites of encampment or illegal activity.” He’s asking staff to ensure the plan respects the Safer Municipalities Act and the values of Cobourg residents.

It’s been framed as controversial, instead of the reasonable and responsible governance that it is.

No amount of signage or disposal bins fixes predatory behaviour, open drug use, or the degradation of shared spaces. Compassion that ignores the safety of the most vulnerable — kids and families — isn’t compassion. It’s ideology over reality.

Cobourg residents deserve honest conversation about what’s actually happening, not platitudes that erase the rights of the law-abiding majority. Parks belong to the community, not just the loudest advocates or the most disruptive users.

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Tamara Ugolini

Senior Editor

Tamara Ugolini is an informed choice advocate turned journalist whose journey into motherhood sparked her passion for parental rights and the importance of true informed consent. She critically examines the shortcomings of "Big Policy" and its impact on individuals, while challenging mainstream narratives to empower others in their decision-making.

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  • jerry stone
    commented 2026-06-24 18:34:02 -0400 Flag
    bus all these creeps to the area these people live to their house if need be “Northumberland United Way, Green Wood Coalition, Northumberland Community Legal Centre,”
  • Andrzej Matuch
    commented 2026-06-24 17:54:24 -0400 Flag
    Who knew that the strength of diversity was located in the pants?
  • Jane Branchflower
    commented 2026-06-24 16:45:25 -0400
    Presumably smoking cigarettes isn’t allowed?
  • Ron Hoover
    commented 2026-06-24 16:36:19 -0400
    I guess the main question I have is: where do the unhoused go?
    The letter from the community organization says that the shelters are consistently full. Is that truly the case? I would suggest following up and just seeing how many people actually are turned away every night. They say that the only place that people could go is the parks and they have to sleep in the parks. Do they know how many people are sleeping in the parks? Is there a difference between winter and summer?
    Well why not get a field somewhere, give them some basic sanitation, and let them stay there but they can stay the heck away from the parks.
    Or better yet give them all $50 and a free bus ticket to Toronto.
  • Bruce Atchison
    commented 2026-06-23 19:12:09 -0400
    I do wish municipal administrators would witness such indecent acts while their children frolic in the park. People often react to things which effect them.